What if I told you that the average American gains 1 pound every
year? And that by not gaining a pound in the year, you’re actually doing well
above average!
Most people lose a little bit of weight, hit a plateau, then
immediately give up when things aren’t going as quickly as they were before.
Most people gain that weight back and then some. This whole phenomenon of
quitting when things are going more slowly is a bit like hitting traffic on
your way home from work, and abandoning your car on the side of the road
because you’re not driving as fast as you wanted. Or getting a flat tire and
slashing the other three.
There’s a mantra in Zen: “the obstacles are the path.”
Plateaus happen. We know they’re going to happen. In fact, when
we plateau, it means that we’ve made progress! It’s the perfect time to look
back and see how far you’ve come because no human endeavor is linear. Learning
a language, a musical instrument, how do date, or how to write well all takes
time, with improvements coming in waves of easy progress, then stagnation,
followed by bursts of more progress.
Diane Fu is a weight lifting coach in San Francisco who tells
her athletes, “When you hit that first plateau and you’re not improving as fast
as you were before, congratulations! You’re no longer a beginner!”
The same is true with fat loss. Weight loss can be fast in the
beginning because the more weight you have to lose, the faster it comes off. The
closer you get to your goal weight, the slower things get. So it’s not a sign
you’re doing something wrong; it’s a sign you’ve done things right! It’s a sign
that you’re completely normal and have hit a point that everyone hits on their
weight-loss journey. A plateau is a mark on the road, letting you know you’re
heading in the right direction, and that you’ve made a lot of progress.
So now it’s up to you. When most people hit a plateau, all they
can think about is that things aren’t going as quickly as they were before, so
they quit. The weight comes back on and they’re further away from their goal
than they ever were. But plateaus are just part of the journey—a slight bend in
the road that is still going to take you where you want to be. Do you turn around
to go back? Or do you keep walking?
When you focus on the journey instead of the destination, the
plateaus come and go. If you keep tracking, keep making little improvements to
your diet, keep walking every day and getting some exercise, then the weeks when
things aren’t going as quickly as you want them to will give way to the weeks
when everything seems to fall into place.
And, before you know it, another year will go by. The average
American gains 1 pound a year. The average dieter gains back more weight than
he or she loses. So all it takes to be better than average is to keep moving
forward.
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